Don't Steal the Peas

Becoming Your Own Banker, Part 2: Don’t Steal the Peas

Infinite Banking is an exercise in imagination. And in an act of imagination, Nelson Nash introduced a powerful example of how to capitalize on a whole life insurance policy and be an honest banker. He often referred to this concept as “don’t steal the peas,” which he explains in his book, Becoming Your Own Banker

Today, we’re going back to this book, the “source” of IBC, and unpacking this idea of “don’t steal the peas.” That means examining the principles that make the Infinite Banking Concept work, and how understanding the fundamentals allows you to change your financial life. If you’re ready to jump into the conversation, learn from the original text, and gain understanding and wisdom… tune in now. 

An Exercise in Imagination

Nelson Nash said it often: Infinite Banking is an exercise in imagination. So what does this mean, exactly? The way Nelson saw it, if you understand how to think about problems, the solutions will become clear. Imagination is simply a method of thinking about things—it’s how we re-envision what we experience. That can be used to see problems in a new light, one that yields new results.

[9:57] “Imagination is all about a thought process, and getting your mindset in a position to be able to see the capability and the possibility of what you can do in your financial life. And to recognize strategies and tools that will help you do that even better.”

Imagination is how humans achieve innovation. Our ability to see problems in new ways is the reason we have advancements in math, science, technology, and any other field conceivable. We can say the same for finance. And Nelson Nash’s idea of “don’t steal the peas” is a perfect act of imagination that explains the foundation of IBC and why it works so well.

Being a Good Business Owner

Let’s imagine, together, that you are a business owner with a thriving grocery store. As a human being, you also have a need for groceries. So you are both owner and customer. That is assuming you’re not shopping with your competitor. 

Keep in mind that as the owner of this store, you need a lot of capital to get started. You want a prime location, a pleasant building for your patrons to be in, and furniture to display your wares. Then, of course, you have the costs of keeping up the store like paying employees, buying stock, maintaining the building, and other overhead costs. 

Since you own the store, you might think it’s no big deal to grab something off the shelves every once in a while. A can of peas, so to speak. You can simply write it off as a loss, right? The truth, though, is that it’s not a wash. You’re actually reducing your future value. 

The thing about a business is that eventually, you want to sell it. Maybe not this generation, but it’s a possibility. And when you do, that buyer is going to look at your Profit and Loss statements. To get as much value as possible in the sale, you want to have proof of a profitable business. Yet if you spent your entire life taking groceries from the back room, you were actually stealing from your future self. In fact, you’re even reducing your present cash flow by taking what you want instead of paying for it. 

Don’t let your business eat the cost. Instead, be an “honest grocer” by buying what you want. This will flow back to you now in your income, and later if you sell the business. 

Don’t Steal the Peas

If you’re having trouble imagining how detrimental it can be to steal the peas, let’s keep this thought going. Let’s talk about the peas, specifically. Let’s say a can of peas comes to your business through the “back door” when you buy it. And every can of peas that comes in through the back door costs you about 57 cents. Every can you sell goes for 60 cents, and leaves through the front door with the customer who buys it.

There’s only a 3-cent margin on that sale, which means that you’re relying on volume to make a profit on the peas alone. To recoup the cost of a single can of peas, you’d have to sell 20 cans. If you grab a can of peas from the back room, that’s a significant number of sales required to break even on what you took.

You’re entitled to do it, it’s your store after all. However, if you do this every single time you grocery shop, you’re creating more and more work for your store to keep up with. That’s not good for the profitability of your store if it takes 20 cans of peas to cover the loss of one can. On a large scale, this is devastating your profit margin. 

Not to mention, you’re modeling to your employees that it’s okay to steal the peas. 

[41:58] “More businesses fail for this reason than any other thing.”

What Does “Don’t Steal the Peas” Have to Do With Life Insurance?

So now that we’ve entertained this exercise in imagination, let’s apply it to whole life insurance and IBC. Your infinite banking policy is the business, in this example. You want it to be successful by paying your premiums and PUAs so that you have ample cash value. Your goal as the policy owner is to store as much capital as possible. However, you also have a need to access this capital at various points over your life. (Hopefully, you see the correlation, here.)

If you decide to access your capital with a policy loan sometime, you can do that and never actually pay the loan back. Your cash value acts as collateral to the loan in the “worst case” scenario, which means you could be off the hook if you choose. However, by not doing so, you’re negatively impacting the amount of capital you can now access, as well as your future death benefit. 

On the other hand, by choosing to be an honest banker and repay your loans, you replenish your pool of capital and maximize your death benefit. It’s all about integrity and whether you want to help your future self or not.

So, will you steal the peas, or will you be the honest grocer?

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Rachel Marshall

Rachel Marshall is a devoted wife and nurturing mother to three wonderful children. Rachel is a speaker, coach, and the author of Seven Generations Legacy™, passionate about helping enterprising families unlock their true potential and live into the multi-generational legacy they are destined for. After a near-death experience, she developed a deep understanding of the significance of recognizing and embracing one's unique legacy As Co-Founder and Chief Financial Educator of The Money Advantage, Rachel Marshall is renowned for her ability to make money simple, fun, and doable. She empowers her clients to build sustainable multi-generational wealth and create a legacy that extends far beyond mere financial success. Rachel's expertise lies in helping wealth creators remove the fear of money ruining their children, give instructions for stewarding family money, teach financial stewardship and create perpetual wealth through family banking, and save time coordinating family finances. Rachel co-hosts The Money Advantage podcast, a highly popular show that delves into business and personal finance, including how to effectively manage finances, protect wealth, and generate sustainable cash flow. Rachel's engaging teaching style and practical advice have made her a trusted source of financial wisdom for her listeners.
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