Before Canceling Your Whole Life Insurance Read Why You Shouldn't Cancel Your Whole Life Insurance

Why You Shouldn’t Cancel Whole Life Insurance

Should I cancel my whole life insurance? Not so fast! Before you make that decision, read this first. No matter your reasons, you need to know what happens if you stop paying whole life insurance premiums and why canceling is rarely your best move.

At some point, you saw the value in owning whole life. You could have sought out the protection for your family, the cash storage, the tax-advantaged growth, or the Privatized Banking element.

But now, you might be standing at a crossroads with a different perspective. If it’s begun to feel like a burden and you’re second-guessing your commitment to whole life insurance, you might be wondering how to break free.

Or you might be reading this before you purchase to guarantee that you’ll never wind up with those regrets.

The good news is this: you never need to feel like you’re stuck! Whole life insurance inherently has the flexibility to stick with you while accommodating your life changes.

Rather than canceling your whole life insurance policy if the going gets tough, you have several options to reduce payments or stop paying altogether, and still keep everything you love.

We’ll walk you through the many other options outside of canceling your whole life insurance policy.

Quick Takeaways

What we will answer:

  • Should I cancel my whole life insurance – and why the answer is usually no
  • What happens if you stop paying whole life insurance premiums? Your options beyond cancellation
  • What you might be giving up if you surrender your policy
  • Smart alternatives like policy loans, reduced paid-up, and premium offset
  • Is it wise to cancel a whole life insurance policy – the real cost of starting over
  • Is there a penalty for closing a whole life insurance policy? What actually happens when you cancel
  • Why whole life is a long-term asset, not a short-term burden

Where Whole Life Insurance Fits into the Cash Flow System

Whole life insurance is just one part of a bigger journey to building time and money freedom.

That’s why we have created the 3-step Business Owner’s Cash Flow System. It’s your roadmap to take you from just surviving to a life of significance, purpose, and financial freedom.

The first step is keeping more of the money you make by fixing money leaks. Then, you’ll protect your wealth with insurance, legal protection, and Privatized Banking. Finally, you’ll put your money to work, increasing your income with cash-flowing assets

Whole life insurance is part of Stage 2: Protection.

Common Reasons People Consider Canceling

If you’re considering canceling your whole life insurance policy, we know you’ve given it some thought. You didn’t buy it on a whim, and chances are, you’re not attempting to cancel it on a whim either.

We talk with lots of people about their financial goals. Here are some of the reasons we’ve heard for canceling a whole life insurance policy.

Policy Performance Issues

Perhaps your policy has slow cash value accumulation and isn’t ideal for Privatized Banking.

Maybe you bought it before you knew about the power of Specially Designed Whole Life Insurance. Perhaps your policy isn’t designed for early cash value. Maybe it’s with a stock company and you aren’t earning the dividends you would as an owner of a mutual company.

When your whole life policy isn’t performing as expected, it’s natural to question whether you made the right choice.

Cash Flow Concerns

You may also feel tight paying the premiums each month, quarter, or year. If your policy is taking up too much cash flow, it could be stressful to make the payments.

You may wish that instead of paying your premiums, you could do something else with that money. Maybe you would rather be paying off your mortgage or investing in something with a higher rate of return.

Life Changes

Your original reason for buying the policy might no longer apply.

Maybe your kids are grown and moved out, you’re retired, your house is paid off, and you no longer feel the “need” for insurance.

Or maybe you initially wanted the policy to cover estate taxes or business obligations that are no longer relevant. Your business might be sold, your estate simplified, or your financial situation fundamentally different than when you first purchased coverage.

Financial Hardship

It could be that you’re in a tight year and don’t have the cash to pay premiums right now.

Perhaps a disability has caused income loss. With lower income, insurance might be a bill that’s now “less of a priority.”

Unexpected medical bills, job loss, business downturns, or family emergencies can completely reshape your financial priorities. When you’re struggling to cover basic living expenses, insurance premiums may feel like a luxury you can’t afford.

These are all completely valid concerns. If you’re feeling any of these frustrations, you’re certainly not the only one, and your feelings make total sense. 

But before you cancel, please read on to learn more about what you might be walking away from and the alternatives that could solve your problems without sacrificing your policy.

What You Might Be Giving Up

When asking “Is it wise to cancel a whole life insurance policy?” the answer depends largely on understanding what you’re walking away from.

When you’re having second thoughts about something, it’s often helpful to remember why you committed in the first place.

Here’s a line-up of all the things whole life insurance can do for you, even if the policy isn’t ideal:

Cash Value and Guarantees

Whole life insurance lives up to its name, giving you benefits that improve your life while you’re still alive, too!

It’s a tax-preferred savings tool, also referred to as a Rich Man’s Roth. With this cash storage system, you have money that’s liquid and usable when you want to get it quickly.

That means you protect your peace of mind that you’ll always have cash value you can access. You won’t have to jump through hoops of having it stuck behind qualifications, taxes, and fees.

Whole life insurance is not an investment. It isn’t supposed to be a high-growth environment. Instead, its strong suits are safety and liquidity.

Tax Benefits

It’s a tax-preferred savings tool with advantages that are hard to replicate elsewhere. The growth inside your policy accumulates without annual tax consequences, and when structured properly, you can access that money without triggering income taxes.

To learn more about the specific tax advantages, read our detailed guide: Is Infinite Banking Tax Free?

Death Benefit & Long-Term Utility

Whole life insurance protects your family for your entire life. It gives your loved ones a death benefit to take care of them if you can’t. It fills up your net worth if you didn’t have time to create it. It’s the ideal legacy-transfer tool because your heirs don’t have to pay income tax on the proceeds.

But life insurance is not just an expense like a lifestyle cost; it’s a wealth-building cornerstone.

With cash value life insurance, you have money available when you find the perfect investment for you. You can borrow your cash value, using the Privatized Banking strategy to get your money working in two places at the same time.

Its guaranteed accessibility means that Privatized Banking is your ideal emergency/opportunity fund.

This integrated approach creates a financial foundation that’s difficult to rebuild once it’s gone.

Real Cost of Starting Over

The biggest misconception about canceling whole life insurance is thinking you can just “get another policy later” if you change your mind.

Starting over almost always costs you more than staying put, even when the true cost of whole life seems high today.

So, what is the biggest risk for whole life insurance? 

Giving up on it too early and losing all the compounding growth you’ve already paid for. 

New Underwriting and Higher Costs

If you wanted life insurance again, you’d have to apply for a new policy. You’d have to go through underwriting again. Even if you’re still just as healthy as when you started the first policy, your new rates will be higher because you’re older. That means it will be more expensive for the same benefit level.

And then there’s the possibility that you haven’t maintained your health. If you’ve had a health condition crop up, it could cause your rates to go even higher or make you uninsurable.

The underwriting process becomes more challenging with age. Conditions that weren’t an issue when you took out the policy – high blood pressure, diabetes, heart problems – can make coverage expensive or impossible to obtain at an older age.

Even routine medications or minor health changes can bump you into a different rate class. 

Lost Compounding from Early Years

But most importantly, since whole life insurance policies age like a fine wine, they perform better with time as they continue earning compound interest. So, trading in a whole life policy for a newer model would mean you’d be giving up the accelerated growth that comes from a tenured policy.

Those early years of premium payments you’ve already made represent the foundation of your policy’s growth. Canceling means losing all that momentum and starting the compounding process over from zero.

You’ve already paid the “startup costs” of your current policy. Those first few years when your cash value was building slowly? That’s behind you now. Starting fresh means going through that slow-growth period all over again.

It also means you can’t change your mind and pick the policy back up where you left off because there are no reinstatement rights.

When you surrender your policy, you give up your ownership rights and the policy’s assets forever.

You’re walking away from guaranteed growth, guaranteed death benefit, and its dividend-paying potential.

Smarter Alternatives to Cancellation

Stop thinking it’s all or nothing. You’ve got more choices than you realize. The insurance company might not have told you about these options when you bought the policy, but they’re all there in your contract.

Reduced Paid-Up (RPU)

One last resort option to end all premium payments from this day forward, without canceling your policy, is to elect the reduced paid-up option in your contract.

Here’s how it works:

Paying for a whole life insurance policy is very similar to paying for a house with a mortgage. You have a $700K house that you make $3K monthly payments on. The longer you pay, the more of the house you own in terms of equity.

The death benefit is similar to the property value of the house. Your premiums are like the mortgage payment. Your cash value is like the home equity – the portion of the house you own, can use, borrow against, etc.

At any point, you can ask the insurance company how much death benefit you can purchase with your full cash value. This means the amount of death benefit that can be fully purchased, or “paid up,” with this lump sum today, so that no future premiums are due.

The insurance company will then reduce your death benefit to the level that will be fully funded at that time. You’ll see an immediate drop in death benefit. But in the years to come, you’ll see your death benefit continue to rise when you have your dividends set to purchase more PUAs.

The best thing about this is that your cash value will not drop in the process. You will see your cash value and dividend growth slow down at first when you exercise the reduced paid-up option. But fast forward a few years, and your cash value growth rate will accelerate again. It may even grow faster than if you’d continued to fund your policy fully.

Policy Loans

Because of the guaranteed life insurance loan option, you can borrow against your cash value at any time, for any reason. That includes borrowing against your cash value to pay premiums on that same policy you borrowed against.

You have $100K in available cash value, with a $30K premium due. You could borrow the full premium from the insurance company, securing it against your cash value. Your entire $100K continues earning interest and dividends, but there’s a lien against $30K of that, meaning that you still have $70K in available and accessible cash value to use in another way. Your $30K whole life policy loan will begin accruing interest, which will add to the lien.

Bonus: You don’t have to pay off the policy loan. As long as the combined total of the loan plus interest doesn’t exceed your cash value, your policy will stay in force.

Premium Offset and Dividend Use

If you have sufficient cash value and dividends, you can stop paying the premiums out of your pocket and let the policy pay for itself.

There are multiple options for this, including applying your dividends to pay the premiums or using up your cash value. In either case, the policy values will be consumed to pay the premiums.

You could pay from policy values on a short-term basis and then pick your premiums back up when your cash flow situation improves. Or you could continue paying from policy values until the money runs out.

Reduce to the Minimum Payment

There are many different ways to structure a whole life insurance policy. With most, you can pay less than the full premium.

We specially design our whole life policies for maximum early cash value and long-term growth so they can be used optimally for Privatized Banking. This design inherently provides the policy owner with lots of flexibility.

Our policies have a base premium, Paid-Up Additions (PUAs), and usually a term rider. And PUAs are not a required payment.

The minimum payment on most policies is to pay the base premium, the term rider premium, and a small portion of the PUA. That means that for a policy illustrated at $100K annual premium, if $70K of that is PUAs, the minimum premium may be approximately $30K.

Bear in mind that your PUAs contribute most to your cash values early in the policy. That means that if you don’t pay the full PUA premium, your cash value won’t grow as quickly. You also wouldn’t expect to have access to as high a percentage of your premiums.

Also, most companies require you to pay a small part of the PUA to maintain the rider. If you stop paying the PUAs altogether, you could lose the opportunity to put in the full premium in future years. I’ve seen some insurance companies require a $100 minimum PUA payment, or a minimum over a certain number of years to hold the rider open.

See? You’re not stuck with an all-or-nothing choice. Your policy was designed to bend, not break, so take some time to reflect on your options. This might prevent you from making a decision you’ll regret later.

Avoid Losing Your Tax Advantages

Another concern is that you want to make sure you don’t MEC the policy when electing the reduced paid-up option.

A MEC stands for Modified Endowment Contract. A whole life insurance policy morphs into a MEC when you pay too much premium for that level of death benefit.

The difference is that with a non-MEC policy, loans are tax-free, as well as withdrawals up to the amount you put in. A MEC is taxable anytime you access the cash value while you’re living, whether through loans or withdrawals.

To maintain the tax-advantaged policy use, there are guidelines for how much premium can be paid per the amount of death benefit, over a given time period.

If you use the reduced paid-up option too early in the policy, you could reduce the death benefit so much that it’s not high enough in proportion to the premiums you’ve paid in.

Before electing the reduced paid-up option, you want to verify with the insurance company that doing so won’t MEC the policy.

Other Options If You Must Exit

If you’ve truly decided you need to part ways with your policy, here are two options that might get you more value than simply surrendering.

1035 Exchange

You can use a 1035 Exchange to transfer the cash value in insurance products such as life insurance or annuities, without tax implications.

A 1035 Exchange might be a good option for you to trade out a non-ideal policy for a better one.

For instance, many IUL policies face a rate increase in later years to keep the policy in force. You may be required to pay higher premiums or cancel your policy and lose the death benefit. To make the most out of your situation, using your cash value to purchase a whole life policy may salvage your death benefit.

You would go through underwriting for the new policy, and your cost of insurance would be based on your current age.

Life Settlement

Life settlements are an option to sell a cash value life insurance policy for more than the current cash value, but less than the death benefit.

With a life settlement, the contract is still in place on your life. But instead of you being the payor and selecting the beneficiary, another company steps into those two roles. They agree to take over your premium payments in exchange for receiving the death benefit when you pass away.

To make it worthwhile to you, you’ll receive a payout of more than your cash value today, usually at least as much as you’ve paid in over the years.

This option could make financial sense for you if you’re in a policy with increasing cost of insurance and dwindling cash value (i.e., universal life policies).

A Long-Term Asset, Not a Short-Term Burden

Specially designed whole life insurance is designed to be flexible. Its versatility allows it to fit your life changes, dancing with you, bending, dipping, and swaying right alongside you as your life changes.

Whole life insurance wasn’t designed to solve this month’s cash flow problem. It was designed to solve your lifetime’s financial challenges.

When you’re struggling with premiums today, it’s easy to lose sight of what this policy will do for you over the decades. But that’s exactly when you need to zoom out and think bigger.

Cash-value life insurance gives you peace of mind, freedom, and flexibility for today and tomorrow. In fact, it’s one of the most valuable assets with the most benefits that you should keep the longest, even if immediate circumstances might make it challenging.

The structure of whole life, with its front-loaded costs and back-loaded benefits, mirrors how real wealth is built. You invest heavily in the early years to create a foundation that will serve you for life.

Like when planting an oak tree, the first few years require constant watering, feeding, and care with little to show for it. But years later, you have a magnificent tree providing shade, beauty, and value that far exceeds what you invested.

Your whole life policy follows the same pattern. The premiums you’re paying now are creating a financial asset that will serve your family for generations – if you don’t chop it down just as it’s starting to mature.

What Actually Happens When You Cancel

If you’ve read and digested all the information we’ve shared and you’ve still decided to surrender your policy, you must have good reason. But before you make that final call, you might be asking:

Is there a penalty for closing a whole life insurance policy?

Not exactly a “penalty” in the traditional sense – there’s no explicit penalty fee, but you’re about to walk away from everything you’ve built.

What does it mean to cancel a whole life insurance policy?

If you wish to break ties with the insurance company altogether and walk away from your policy, the separation is called “surrendering” your policy. At the point the policy is surrendered, the contract is void.

When you surrender your policy, you give up your ownership rights and the policy’s assets forever.

At policy surrender, the insurance company will pay out the cash surrender value to you by check.

How much money you get back when you cancel a whole life insurance policy depends on several factors specific to your situation.

How long have you had the policy? What have you paid in? How has your policy grown? How much of your cash value have you used?

That check might be less than what you’ve paid in, especially in the early years. And anything you get back over and above what you put in becomes taxable income.

Discover Your Life Insurance Policy Options

We hope that you can breathe a sigh of relief, knowing that, wherever you are with a policy today, you have options. The last thing you should feel is claustrophobic, stuck, or trapped in a dead-end.

Think twice before giving up on an asset you’ve spent years building.

Even if you need to change your pay structure, pay less, or stop paying altogether, you don’t have to cancel your insurance. There are many options to adjust your payments without divorcing the life insurance company and giving up the death benefit.

Your options and what’s best for you depends on your unique goals and circumstances, as well as your specific policy’s design and timing. You’ll want professional guidance to help you consider all the moving parts and the impact on your financial future.

Reevaluate before you cancel. The decision you make today will impact your family’s financial future for decades to come.

If you want to know more about how life insurance or Privatized Banking can help you, book a Strategy Call

We’ll help you review your situation to help you decide what moves are best for you. You’ll also find out the one next thing you need to do to accelerate your path to time and money freedom.

Rachel Marshall

Rachel Marshall is a devoted wife and nurturing mother to three wonderful children. Rachel is a speaker, coach, and the author of Seven Generations Legacy®, passionate about helping enterprising families unlock their true potential and live into the multi-generational legacy they are destined for. After a near-death experience, she developed a deep understanding of the significance of recognizing and embracing one's unique legacy As Co-Founder and Chief Financial Educator of The Money Advantage, Rachel Marshall is renowned for her ability to make money simple, fun, and doable. She empowers her clients to build sustainable multi-generational wealth and create a legacy that extends far beyond mere financial success. Rachel's expertise lies in helping wealth creators remove the fear of money ruining their children, give instructions for stewarding family money, teach financial stewardship and create perpetual wealth through family banking, and save time coordinating family finances. Rachel co-hosts The Money Advantage podcast, a highly popular show that delves into business and personal finance, including how to effectively manage finances, protect wealth, and generate sustainable cash flow. Rachel's engaging teaching style and practical advice have made her a trusted source of financial wisdom for her listeners.
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6 Comments

  1. Dolores Toft on November 9, 2019 at 9:52 am

    My brother has terminal cancer. My father bought him a modified whole life policy of $5000 over 40 years ago. They added a rider of $5000 term 20 years ago. He is going to be applying for medicaid so we have to get rid of this asset (actually buy it down by spending it on his medical care). I understand that term insurance under $10,000 is not included in the Medicaid eligibility. The insurance is with Globe. Very hard to get someone on the phone that can give us any information. I assume if we take the surrender value on the initial modified life plan we are probably going to lose the term. Any ideas soon how to handle this?



    • Lucas Marshall on November 9, 2019 at 11:19 am

      Dolores,

      Thank you for asking, and I am sorry to hear that.

      Each state and product has different rules.

      It might be possible to change ownership and not have it count towards the spend down.

      We might be able to help if we knew the company, product, and state.

      You can email us at hello@themoneyadvantage.com



  2. said on July 10, 2020 at 10:29 am

    Whole life insurance is the worse financial decision in your life, they claim that life insurance isn’t for investment, but they want your money to invest for you huh.
    Change my mind.



    • Lucas Marshall on July 24, 2020 at 6:51 am

      Are you saying whole life insurance is an investment? Also, please do specify why you believe its the “worst financial decision in your life.”



  3. Maryann on August 11, 2020 at 11:12 pm

    I have a $5000 policy my mom bought me 37 yrs agoI had to take a $2000 loan against it awhile ago and I’m trying to paying back but it didn’t really seem to be lessening. My payment is $10. So I pay $25 thinking that would help. I was able to set up an online account finally and see that the interest is $75 does that mean unless I pay above $75 a month I’ll never get that loan paid off? Mass Mutual bought in MI



    • Lucas Marshall on August 14, 2020 at 7:06 am

      Maryann,

      Thank you for commenting and asking. We cannot advise via blog post comments.

      However, I will say that if you were not paying at least the interest, then, whatever interest you were not paying gets added to the policy loan total. So your loan would be growing. You will need to pay more than the interest to pay down the principal.

      I cannot speak to the details of your specific policy or situation with the information given.

      If you would like further assistance you can book a call with our team here: https://themoneyadvantage.com/calendar